August 26, 2010

Make a change in "Relationship"



On occasionally, a RELATIONSHIP doesn’t last longer and ‘evergreen’.
It’s not only the matter of couple love relationship, but also friendship or family relationship.
Maybe there is someone that has a very well relationship with you in the past, but not NOW.
The relationship possibly been build up at the same workplace, camp, school and so on.

But that is just a short life span of relationship.

How you try to enhance the relationship, NAH, it is impossible to be very good like the foretime.
Everything is changed and the relationship never will be the same.
The topics to talk or things to think are exactly change and different.
Only can talk about the past time, memories and the common question to ask - How’s your life now?
Nothing is more than that.


Or, you never step to his/her front and say “Hi” to those you really know them, but also not that much to know about them when you meet them at the public.
It’s a feeling like so strange and embarrass.
Sometimes you don’t know what to do by just “smile to them”.
Even is hard to start a short conversation. By saying something like:

1) “Hmm, hi! What are you doing here?
2) “Hey, long time no see. Where have you been now?
3) “Oh, I can’t believe that I met you here! How are you?
4) “Hi! It’s happy to meet you here. What are you doing now?
5)


It’s just a crap. You can’t think about any other things to say.
You may find some excuses to get away from the embarrass situation.
I have to go now. Someone is waiting for me. Find you next time.
You sure you will find them someday? Or they will reply back when you really find them.
No Way! Don’t try to put any promise if you wouldn’t find them. It looks stupid.
Please admit that yours relationship are alter and probably change to a strange relationship.

But guess what,
You can’t really not to believe that a thing can make it changes slightly better.
At least, it makes not to become a strange relationship.


That is “FAceBOok”!! =D
You can find people that you know that and ADD THEM.
Leave some comments about their status, pictures and links.
You can even chatting with them and send a greeting message, e.g. Birthday wish.
Some even plays games with their friends, poke here and there.
Create a group, suggest a fans club and many you can do to enhance the relationship.
It’s truth!

But, sometimes, “FAceBOok” is also works like paparazzi world, so funky!
Who you broke up with or who you in love, engaged or married,
All your friends will know about your latest status as long as you’re in active and update.
So, beware of it! I really regret that time simply accepted friends requested.
“I don’t know who they are and should I know them or did I know them?”
Sigh! Just let it be. Maybe we can meet new friends, LMAO.

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